Archive for July, 2009

Stop Worrying and Start Living!

Wednesday, July 29th, 2009

When we worry about the challenges that are appearing in our lives right now it can often be counter productive. Worry can cause us to feel such crippling emotions as fear, panic and anxiety. These emotions keep us stuck where we are, not allowing us to move forward.

I am not suggesting you ignore the challenges you are facing in your life right now just simply proposing that you start to look at them in a different way. In essence we need to be concerned about our problems and not worried. There is a big difference between concern and worry. Concern means realizing what your problems are and calmly taking steps to over come them. Worry means going around in frustrating, energy depleting and time wasting circles. Which way would you prefer to be?

Always remember it is not the situations that you have met in your life that have thrown you; it is what you think of these situations.

Montaigne the great French philosopher came up with this wonderful quote, which really sums it up “A man is not hurt so much by what happens, as by his opinion of what happens.” And our opinion of what happens is entirely up to us.

Stay tuned for next weeks article where I will give you some more useful tips on how to banish worry from your life!

Suzanne is a Life Coach, Corporate Coach and NLP Master Practitioner. If you would like to book Suzanne as your Personal Coach, or for a Workshop, Seminar or Corporate event in your area, click here now.

The Power of Visualization!

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

A wonderful quote from Neville Goddard sums up how important visualization and your imagination is in the change process.

“To attempt to change circumstances before you change your imaginal activity is to struggle against the very nature of things. There can be no outer change until there is first imaginal change”

In essence you need to be able to visualize the outcome you want to create in your life before you can create it.

So how can you use your imagination to create the change you want in your life?

There are 7 easy steps!

-  Get your outcome in mind. Know exactly what it is you want and by what date.

-  Imagine the end step, or evidence procedure so when you have it you know you have achieved your goal e.g. if your outcome is to earn €20,000 by the 30th of September your end step might be logging into you online bank account on the 30th of September and seeing a balance of €20,000.

-  Now in your imagination step inside the goal looking through your own eyes, hearing the sounds around you and feeling the feelings of being right there inside the goal. As you are inside the goal adjust the qualities of the picture, sounds and the feelings in order to make the goal the most real and compelling for you.

-  Imagine stepping out of the picture but leave your body in the picture, as if you are looking at a Polaroid snapshot of you attaining the goal.

-  Float all the way out into the future with that snapshot picture of you, until you are above the date you said your goal would happen. Drop your picture down onto that date.

-  Turn and come back towards now and as you do notice how your future is shifting for you to attain this goal.

-  The final and most important step is to start taking ACTION. Every day do one thing that brings you nearer your Goal.

Enjoy the visualization process; it can be lots of fun!

Warm regards
Suzanne
 
“How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve themselves or the world” Anne Frank

Transform your Life in 3 days!

Tuesday, July 7th, 2009

If you would like to experience a breakthrough in any area of your life then take a look at this video. ”Breakthrough to Success” is happening in Dublin between the 11th and 13th of September.

Two tickets to this event are normally EUR1,790, but you and a friend can attend completely complimentary as my guest.

Click the “Enrol Now” link below to book yourself in.

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Attending this weekend could really help you change your life forever. It not only will help propel you fast forward but will equip you with some of the most cutting edge NLP techniques available today.

As Donald Trump said  - “90% of success begins with just showing up”
 

 

How Can YOU Change the World?

Monday, July 6th, 2009

We often think as one person we cannot change the world but as Margaret Mead said
“Never Doubt that a small group of committed people can change the World. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has”

Every one of us has the potential to effect so much positive change in the lives of others. The definition of Potential is “capable of being or becoming”. What are you waiting for? Is NOW not a good time to develop your true potential?

This is one of my favourite videos. I hope it inspires you to create the change you want in your life and in the lives of others, as much as it has me.

Stress - It’s a huge Crisis in the Business World

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009

Take a look at some very worrying statistics on stress in the workplace:

  • 52% of executives will die of diseases related to stress, as stress effects nearly every major system in our bodies according to Tyne.
  •  The New England Journal of Medicine in 1998 declared that “managing the long-term effects of the physiological responses to stress is critical to survival.” Stress may contribute to 85% of all medical problems.
  • A US government health white paper “Saving lives” published in 1999, warns that people in stressful jobs with either very high demands or very little control over their work are more likely to suffer heart disease. It sights a long running study of civil servants which shows that women in high demand low control jobs are 70% more likely to develop coronary disease than women in high control jobs. Men in high demand low control jobs are 50% more likely to develop heart problems than their counterparts in high control jobs.
  • 55% of full-time employees say that work-related stress makes them ill-tempered at home, according to Carol Hymovitz article in WSJ Career Journal
  • More than 1million workers in the UK & Ireland say their managers are so over worked that they don’t really have time to manage their staff.

People suffering from high levels of stress generally have a number of symptoms including but not limited to:- chronic fatigues, anger at those making demands, negativity and irritablity, a sense of being besieged and a hair trigger display of emotions. A wide range of behaviours some destructive frequently accompany these emotions. Highly stressed managers and workers inappropriately vent anger at subordinates and co workers, and quite often the negative emotions associated with stress will spill over into their home life.

In the UK and Ireland the average work week is approx 4 hours longer than the EU average but the average productivity is 25% lower.

Work like balance is not anti work, in fact having a healthy work life balance increases your productivity.

Putting in long hours is not the badge of honor it once was. Are these long hours really worth it?

What are you doing to create the work life balance you desire?

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- Statistics and information courtesy of the “Rescue Institute”